I've had a lot of people ask why it's important to have consistent discipline. For a while my husband and I stopped, well, we didn't really stop,we just didn't have time and our marriage came apart. I resented him for not noticing that I needed his authority and accountability. I started to feel unloved and unnoticed and we ended up in a really bad place. After a few sessions with a marriage therapist, she recommended that we re-commit to maintenance spankings at a minimum of two times per week.
I'm ready to post again. I know it's been a long time. I was thinking that posting about my husband's spankings was not necessary actually. I thought I would focus on making sure the spankings HURT instead and that he was obeying my rules and getting punished when it was necessary. For a while I stopped the maintenance spankings twice a week because I didn't think they were teaching him any lesson.
I am aching, and feel a sympathetic burn just reading this. I used a massage therapist several years ago who was a Dominant. She did not spank me as she preferred to stick with her own subs, but saw my spanked bottom and always commented. She was absolutely professional during the massage. Far, far more than I could endure.
It sounds to me like the reason your wife thinks this is something she does just to please you is because YOU seem to think it's something she does just to please you. The perspective this post is written from is entirely about what you want, what you get off on, not what your wife might enjoy, not how there might be advantages or pleasures for her in disciplining you. If you want your wife to really get into spanking you, you need to start by asking yourself, and HER, what she wants. Throck- First, this is a fabulous post.